by Project Willow » Mon Oct 02, 2006 1:14 am
I know Chig. I admire Perry's work a great deal.<br><br>Not too long ago I got involved with an unstable man. Most of his problems stem from negative attachments. He is borderline paranoid. He has feelings for me, but they terrify him. He cannot see me, he can only look through the lens of his former attachments. It's such a tragedy, and he has hurt me at times because of it. I'm no longer involved with him, but I do see him around occasionally. It's stunning how he views me, he thinks I'm out to get him, or that I think he's bad, despite my protestations.<br><br>I know why I fell for him, because I too really have no idea what a safe attachment is. We saw that in each other. There is a new person in my life, a safe person, a kind, caring person. I am trying. It's scary, but I think the only thing I want now in life is to feel that connection to someone, to really trust enough to share my self.<br><br> <p></p><i></i>