by proldic » Wed Nov 09, 2005 1:02 pm
I do not want to interfere with the other discussions on this important thread, but I have to ask am I wrong to see this specific post as quite disturbing?<br><br><!--EZCODE QUOTE START--><blockquote><strong><em>Quote:</em></strong><hr> We had a great band before my drummer-daughter ran away, on her 16th birthday... Years ago, when my then-17-year-old daughter came back home after 1 1/2 years and told me of her stepfather's sexual abuse of her and her foster sister, I took her to aall the places we'd lived since it started (when she was 8!) Most PD's didn't even have a female officer to take the report; it was done by whoever was there. That was 1990.<br><br>I found the diary of my youngest daughter in 2000, describing the actions of the next stepfather, and immediately picked her up from school and hauled her down to make a report. In those ten years, there had been tremendous changes. First, the officer specializing in child sexual abuse cases was called in, and she looked like someone's grandmother. Then, as she explained only to me, the interview was under a hidden video camera.<br><br>Nothing ever came of either case, though, because there was no corroborating witness. In the first case, my foster daughter could have witnessed, but she was In Love with my ex-husband and had his child soon after I left with my other two children (she had just turned 18.) She lived with us since she was 11. I was the kind mother she didn't have before (and completely bamboozled by what was going on behind my back.)<br><br>If anyone has any suggestions... if only I could get that former foster daughter to talk to me or answer my emails (I found her; she's still playing sax in a band in Portland, OR.) My ex is raising that baby boy, who's now 16...<hr></blockquote><!--EZCODE QUOTE END--> <p></p><i></i>