by havanagilla » Tue Mar 07, 2006 3:01 pm
I'll take this opportunity (though its not directly connected) to protest your use of terms such as "talmud merchant". I am a bit less concerned about it, so it may seem like accepting it, I take it as a mental health issue, namely, a need to sort of curse or use foul language, in a way that actually hurts YOU, and not the other person. <br>I don't know what talmud merchant is at all, due to ignorance or english illiteracy but it sounds really bad. Since I have a lot of experience with people who are in deep distress, I am overlooking a lot stuff that others don't. But it is annoying, espcially if one (as I am) happens to be the subject of the curse. That applies also to those who ask "are YOU jewish ????" its almost tempting to add :everyone take their pants off and let's see if you are circumcized. <br>Here again, since I am an Israeli (didn't live with antisemitism at all) and also aware of why some people might feel overwhelmed with ISrael's position - I am not even registering this. Namely, my brain skips these terms as in rubbish or background noise.<br>And Yes, it does look bad to newcomers, who don't know what and who is who. it looks like slime. So if you want to salvage your own self respect, reconsider those terms, or make very clear what is talmud merchant and how it can be justified to use it publicly.<br>I think DE is correct in his protests, even though I personally overlook these utterances, but not everyone does or should do that. <p></p><i></i>