by chiggerbit » Tue Jul 04, 2006 12:01 am
I'm convinced that Bush is a Narcissistic Personality Disorder, and is unable to see beyond his sick, self-centered, vengeful view of what the world should be. (If you don't think a Personality disorder is serious, remember that the young man who is now accused of raping and murdering a 15-year-old Iraqi girl and murdering three members of her family [one a child] was discharged because he has a Personality Disorder.)<br><br>Take a look at this description, and then think about Bush. Fits, doesn't it? Scary thought that this may describe our President.<br><br><!--EZCODE AUTOLINK START--><a href="http://www.operationdoubles.com/narc/index.htm?characteristicsofnpd.htm">www.operationdoubles.com/...sofnpd.htm</a><!--EZCODE AUTOLINK END--><br><br><br><br>Characteristics of NPD<br> Home <br>NPD belongs to a class of personality disorders known as Cluster B, the "dramatic/emotional/erratic" personality disorders. This class includes Histrionic, Borderline, and Antisocial personality disorders. The most heavily researched personality disorders are two in this group, Borderline and Antisocial personality disorder. This is because people with these disorders appear for treatment in large numbers. Borderlines are often forced into treatment because of socially disruptive behavior. Antisocials often get into trouble with the law and are evaluated by court order, then forced into treatment. Current epidemiological research permits no reliable estimate of how prevalent NPD is in society.<br><br><br><br>Officially, the principal characteristics of NPD are:<br><br>• inflated self-esteem <br><br>• lack of empathy for others <br><br>• feeling entitled to special treatment and privileges <br><br>• disagreeableness <br><br><br><br>That says nothing about the all-consuming need for ALL available attention that bears fruit in these character traits.<br><br><br><br>Since the real world conflicts with their view of themselves, narcissists live in a fantasy world of their own creation. This is like the fantasy world little children live in. If you think way back to your earliest memories, you can barely remember what this fantasy world was like. Imagine it persisting into adulthood! Little children are the stars of their fantasies and are preoccupied with them. Imagine an adult with that going on in her or his head! Like the fantasies of little children, these fantasies aggrandize the narcissist's importance, service, and accomplishments. (This is a child's way of coping with being so small and faulty and insignificant in a world of giants.) Their version of their participation in any endeavor leaves everybody else out of the picture. In fact, they may even drive another out of a picture to have the spotlight all to themselves.<br><br><br><br>So, unlike the normal child who outgrows her imaginary friend, a narcissist's whole life is a tea party with her imaginary friends. It's a storyteller's fiction. Like a little child she lives in all day long. While doing so, she can even interact with you and seem to be "with it" — till she says or does something that let's you know she's not all there. Like when she asks you to set a place at the table for her imaginary friend. A narcissist is an adult who never relinquishes her preference for this fantasy over reality. And so, like a little child, she just erases reality whenever she wants by editing it into a new chapter in her autobiographical work of fiction. <br><br><br><br>In fact, the best way to understand a narcissist is to picture them as a little child — a spoiled brat — doing whatever they're doing. You immediately see that what you're dealing with is an adult with the mentality of a spoiled child. And once you see that, you know where they're coming from and what they're up to. <br><br><br><br><br><br>A fantasy, of course, is a lie. One must constantly lie to oneself to maintain a fantasy. It takes little thought to see why believing a known lie was the Original Sin.<br><br><br><br>A preference for fantasy over Truth is natural in little children. What magic thinking a lie and then believing it does! Magical Thinking is natural in little children, too. But children choose to leave Never Never Land at the proverbial Age of Reason. Narcissists never do. Since they lie to themselves constantly, malignant narcissists are pathological liars who lie to everybody else too.<br><br><br><br>Their sense of entitlement proceeds from these fantasies, these delusions of importance and grandeur. It exempts narcissists from rules that apply to others. This is common among the high and mighty who view themselves as superior: they need an inferior set of standards to live up to. (Their upside-down logic, not mine.)<br><br><br><br>Narcissists are prone to rage when others don't behave in a way that reflects their grand specialness. In other words, at the drop of a hat. Sometimes this is a seething rage, sometimes a violent one. Rage is a primitive emotion, common in little children during a temper tantrum but rare in adults. Adults normally experience rage only in extreme situations like combat or when under attack by the severe abuse of some willful and wanton outrage. Even then, adults rarely let 'er rip. Like absolute dictators, narcissists feel no need to restrain themselves — unless the coast isn't clear and they might get a bad reputation or land in jail. In other words, they are as irresponsible as children, too.<br><br><br><br>Nothing is so aggrandizing as power. Hence narcissists are control freaks. Like Katharina (the shrew) in Shakespeare's Taming of the Shrew, they cross people and disagree at every turn. They play Keep Away with things others want. In short, they deal in power plays. To feel their power, they domineer. Whenever they can get away with it, they boss people around to a ridiculous degree by issuing arbitrary and pointless orders, such as to sit in a different chair or to clean a different room first. Always testing their boundaries, they learn at a young age the art of "shock and awe" in using a sudden temper tantrum to blind-side and run a playmate over. Since power used to bash and destroy is spectacular, and power used to defend or build isn't so much fun, they bash and destroy. They get a big charge — almost erotic pleasure — out of bashing and destroying, because of the power rush they get. And they view others as objects to be powerful on.<br><br><br><br>So, they have as much regard for others' feelings as we do for a nail we are hitting with a hammer. Which is why they have no compunctions about exploiting people. <br><br><br><br>Narcissists are not the only people who have no humanity though. Neither do psychopaths. And neither do infants or toddlers, who will abuse smaller children and animals on a whim with nothing but keen interest in the victim's suffering. In fact, all people can turn off their human sensibilities like a light switch. This ability is adaptive. It enables us to function in ordeals such as combat or natural disaster. Unfortunately, it also enables us to watch a lynching or a burning at the stake or the Holocaust. Narcissists and psychopaths are unique in that they have that light switch permanently turned off for everyone but themselves. And I mean "everyone," even their own children. <br><br><br><br>In fact, they don't know what humanity is. They think it's having hurt feelings — for themselves. They do try to pass for normal. It is well documented that they often (badly) imitate the normal human feelings they see in others by putting on melodramatic shows of "concern" and "sympathy" that are so overdone one sometimes wonders if it is parody. <br><br><br><br>Since no one but the narcissist is worthy of any attention/regard in his version of the world, the narcissist hates it when reality intrudes on this delusion. He is typified by the wicked queen on the fairy tale of Sleeping Beauty: "Mirror, mirror on the wall, who is the fairest of them all?" Like her, the narcissist is consumed with pathological envy. He projects this distressing emotion off onto the one he envies. That is, he fantasizes that the victim envies him. That gives the narcissist all the excuse he needs to "protect" himself by attacking.<br><br><br><br>We normally think of little children as sweet and innocent. But, when you think twice, you realize that it's a good thing they're so small, inexperienced, and controllable. Indeed, it is often (and truly) said that the most terrible thing in the world is a grown up child. Take Adolph Hitler, for example. Nero. Saddam Hussein. Stalin. Power without accountability. So, if you are dealing with a malignant narcissist, never forget for a moment that you are dealing with a mind that works exactly like a little child's. It is as impulsive as a little child's. And reason and morality will have no more influence on it than they have on a little child's.<br><br><br><br>The official diagnostic criteria are of limited value to the lay person, because they but encapsulate reams of medical doctrine. But here they are:<br><br><br><br><br><br>Diagnostic Criteria for NPD:<br><br><br><br>"[NPD is] a pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration, and lack of empathy, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated by five (or more) of the following:<br><br>• has a grandiose sense of self-importance (e.g., exaggerates achievements and talents, expects to be recognized as superior without commensurate achievements) <br><br>• is preoccupied with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love <br><br>• believes that he or she is "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions) <br><br>• requires excessive admiration <br><br>• has a sense of entitlement, i.e., unreasonable expectations of especially favorable treatment or automatic compliance with his or her expectations <br><br>• is interpersonally exploitative, i.e., takes advantage of others to achieve his or her own ends <br><br>• lacks empathy: is unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others <br><br>• is often envious of others or believes that others are envious of him or her <br><br>• shows arrogant, haughty behaviors or attitudes." <br><br><br><br>Features associated with NPD are:<br><br>• Depressed Mood <br><br>• Dramatic/Erratic/Antisocial Personality <br><br><br><br>It is a small step from malignantly narcissistic behavior to the aggressive-sadistic behavior of a sociopath. In fact, many authorities on the subject view Narcissistic Personality Disorder as a "milder" form of Antisocial Personality Disorder. Perhaps the root of it. They also believe that those severely affected are prone to psychotic breaks.<br><br><br><br>Yet even those mildly affected are not harmless. Consider what hilarious Elizabeth on the British comedy Keeping Up Appearances does to the lives of those around her. She makes her husband dreary, her son pathetic, and her next-door neighbor a nervous wreck. Not really so funny.<br><br><br> <br> <p></p><i>Edited by: <A HREF=http://p216.ezboard.com/brigorousintuition.showUserPublicProfile?gid=chiggerbit@rigorousintuition>chiggerbit</A> at: 7/3/06 10:27 pm<br></i>