This was my first mention of Willow in this thread, on page 16.
FWIW I changed my avatar back to the pensive surfer after talking to Jack and deciding that I should avert my eyes for a while longer, in support of Willow's art project. I forgot to delete my comment to this thread.
Willow and I settled the thing that wasn't a problem between us to begin with. She was never asked to change her avatar for my sake. Note my overt statement of support.
After Willow declared no intention of censoring herself, which she wasn't asked to do anyway, along with my response to her (still on p 16) I created a signature file that linked to my blog post teaching people how to hide undesirable avatars. It was then that Willow changed her avatar and invited private discussion.
Not once did I ask Willow to change her avatar, it was a nice gesture on her part. We did have an private exchange and the result was peaceful and we were both as gracious as we could be. When we were finished I removed my signature file.
SLAD is still sore with Willow about something that happened between them. I am not confident that I know all the ins and outs of it but it looks like Willow's trying to bridge divides.
If anyone wants to hear more or kick my ass for being an intolerant prude or whatever please PM me.