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MacC, it's so good to see you, and so sad at the same time not to actually be seeing you. I'm not sure if we've had any communication since the time in Berlin, but I fell into exhaustion the night before my flight and couldn't hit the anarch scene.
I remember a non-erotic thing that happened to me in Germany, in Cologne, many years ago. Perhaps the personal dimension was my best friend at the time, a hardcore alkie, and we did share one of those unspoken het-male erotic tensions. Out of nowhere one evening I had the damndest thought, which came like the ringing of a bell: "Dean Martin must be dead by now." Now I was aware that Dean Martin was, in fact, not dead, unless I'd missed some fresh development, and I must confess the health of this fine but to me not all that beloved singer had never been a concern or anything I'd given a prior thought. Accordingly it dropped back out of my thoughts. Two mornings later the BILD headlines (news was slower in those ancient times of the 1990s, remember?) informed me that, in fact, Dean Martin had died just about in the same hour as I'd thought his demise was due. Now I can class this without losing any ego as a coincidence. You have 10,000 sudden thoughts about contingencies every day so sometimes they'll happen to match something actually occurring just at that moment. Except for the loud and final pop with which this weird thought had come, very unlike the involuntary idle musings about Abe Vigoda or Amy Winehouse or Cheney or whoever.
slomo, lilypat et al.: Thanks for your accounts.
Something's there, and it's going to have a basis, but is also elusive to means of measurement and conscious control. It's crazy to think a serious empirical view of it can be gained by the present methods of quantified social psych. More serious are attempts to set up mind-circumstances where the reception becomes more frequent or pronounced, and your path, slomo, makes sense, in an area where we don't have a map for making sense of anything.
The difficulties with rigorous science approach is that it requires skepticism as default, but making psi work (instead of having it non-sequitur its way in, singing "Sway" with cocktail in hand and the Rat Pack in tow) almost certainly requires complete openness to the idea. You have to believe in it. This is susceptible to self-delusions, pitfalls and exploitation, and sorry, but it's a very safe Bayesian guess to expect that false positives are the case with 98 percent of publicly claimed psi phenomena (not including the random-seeming sudden premonitions we have all had).

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