Everyday Sexism

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Postby Perelandra » Tue Apr 30, 2013 5:01 pm

Joe Hillshoist wrote:So the real motivation for getting her to do this stuff, not for self defense as such, is just being at home in her body and being able to use it.

If she wants to do formal martial arts training of some sort or other she'll probably start when she is 4 or 5.

I'm definitely teaching her LilyPat's trick tho.
Thanks for the notes, Joe. I'll watch those. T'ai Chi for the whole family would be fun.

Kids are the OG "at home in the body and able to use it", as long as they're pretty free range.
I can't wrestle with mine anymore, I'd get hurt, for real. Strength training needed here. :basicsmile

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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby Simulist » Mon May 06, 2013 8:19 pm

Air Force's sexual assault prevention chief arrested for sexual assault

By David Martin
May 6, 2013 7:01 PM

An Air Force officer was arrested for sexual assault. The remarkable thing is the accused man was the chief of the Air Force sexual assault prevention unit.

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The mug shot of Lt. Col. Jeff Krusinski shows signs of struggle on his face. The police report alleges that a drunken Krusinski "approached a female victim in a parking lot and grabbed her breasts and buttocks." The victim fought the suspect off as he attempted to touch her again and alerted police.

News of the incident in the Virginia suburbs of Washington broke the day before the Pentagon is scheduled to release new figures showing a continuing rise in sexual assaults in the military: A six-percent increase from 3,192 to 3,374 reports of sexual assault in fiscal year 2012 compared to the previous year.

Estimates of the actual numbers of what is a notoriously underreported crime go much higher. According to the Pentagon figures, an estimated 26,000 servicewomen experienced unwanted sexual contact, up from 19,300 two year ago -- a number the pentagon says is "unacceptable."

Krusinski has been removed from his job, but that will not change the reality that the Pentagon's own figures show sexual assaults are on the rise in the military.

She made the best out of a terrible situation: she beat the crap out of the guy, and then she had him arrested.
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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby Simulist » Tue May 07, 2013 3:40 pm

Pop quiz: what major felony should be investigated and adjudicated by amateurs, in secret, without subpoena powers, a right to representation, or any kind of due process controls?

Did you say rape? If so, you probably work in university student affairs, where mock justice systems have been pretending to adjudicate sexual assault cases for decades. And it's time for that to stop.

— Adam Goldstein, "Rape is a Crime, Treat it as Such"
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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby FourthBase » Tue May 07, 2013 3:56 pm

Simulist wrote:
Pop quiz: what major felony should be investigated and adjudicated by amateurs, in secret, without subpoena powers, a right to representation, or any kind of due process controls?

Did you say rape? If so, you probably work in university student affairs, where mock justice systems have been pretending to adjudicate sexual assault cases for decades. And it's time for that to stop.

— Adam Goldstein, "Rape is a Crime, Treat it as Such"


Co-sign.

Anyone familiar with the organization FIRE is aware of how awful those proceedings are, for all parties.

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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby RocketMan » Wed May 08, 2013 4:09 am

I don't remember if this was brought up on RI yet, but there's a new tv programme in Denmark where the host and a weekly guest appraise a naked woman standing in front of them for half an hour. Here's a link to the programme (in Danish):

http://www.dr.dk/tv/se/blachman/blachman-6-6#!/26:46
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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby Simulist » Wed May 08, 2013 12:36 pm

RocketMan wrote:I don't remember if this was brought up on RI yet, but there's a new tv programme in Denmark where the host and a weekly guest appraise a naked woman standing in front of them for half an hour. Here's a link to the programme (in Danish):

http://www.dr.dk/tv/se/blachman/blachman-6-6#!/26:46

Of course the irony of this is that the two men appraising the appearance of the woman are both bald, fat, and ugly — and one of them is even missing an eye!
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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby ShinShinKid » Wed May 08, 2013 1:09 pm

Good thing we know from some of the posters around here that martial arts don't really work for women.
That lady was just lucky some man stepped in to help her, oh wait, she fought him off all by herself, didn't she?
You say that man was in the military for how many years? She must have been twice his size, and had a gun, right?
Another thing we know, the military never, ever trains anyone in how to use their hands as weapons, right?

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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby ShinShinKid » Mon May 13, 2013 3:50 pm




This is posted in response to some that women have no place learning martial arts, as they will not help them defend against a larger, stronger opponent.[edited to give cause for posting]
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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby parel » Thu May 16, 2013 9:01 am

Angelina Jolie BRCA1 Mutation: Why Is the Breast Cancer Test At the Center Of a Supreme Court Battle?


Angelina Jolie BRCA1 Mutation Why Is the Breast Cancer Test At the Center Of a Supreme Court Battle

In a timely and important op-ed piece in the New York Times, Angelina Jolie discussed her decision to get a preventative double mastectomy to reduce her risk for breast cancer, a disease that took Jolie's mother's life at age 56.

What Jolie does not mention is that the very same genes that put Angelina Jolie at risk for aggressive breast and ovarian cancer, and the genetic tests that may well have saved her life, are currently at the center of a Supreme Court intellectual property case.

Jolie wrote:

"I have always told [my kids] not to worry, but the truth is I carry a 'faulty' gene, BRCA1, which sharply increases my risk of developing breast cancer and ovarian cancer."

Myriad Genetics currently claims to own the rights to these critical breast cancer genes. Not just their specific test for the BRCA1 and BRCA2 genes, but the actual isolated DNA sequence itself.

That's right. Though this may sound like a concept from a harrowing dystopian future, this is occurring right now, and it has implications right now for the lives of millions of women and men.

As the American Medical Association notes, patents on human genes interfere with the diagnosis and treatment of patients, increases the costs of genetic testing, and blocks other researchers from continuing related research.

How can a corporation possibly own a patent for a naturally occurring human gene? That's a really good question, and Myriad Genetics and the U.S. Patent and Trademark Office have not provided any compelling answers.

Myraid Genetics claims to be exempt from the "natural products" exception to patent law, because there are some slight differences between the gene as it is exists in the body and the gene sequence that they have patented. For example, they removed the non-coding portions of the DNA sequence.

However, this is standard, commonplace science, and Myriad Genetics did not develop new mechanisms for separating coding from non-coding sections of DNA. Ultimately, our cells themselves know the difference between coding and non-coding regions of the DNA, as this is a key part of the process by which genes are translated into proteins.

Jolie recognizes that the option of genetic testing for breast cancer risk certainly isn't an option for everyone. Angelina wrote:

"It has got to be a priority to ensure that more women can access gene testing and lifesaving preventive treatment, whatever their means and background, wherever they live. The cost of testing for BRCA1 and BRCA2, at more than $3,000 in the United States, remains an obstacle for many women."

This business has been hugely profitable for Myriad Genetics. Karuna Jaggar, the executive director of Breast Cancer Action, the brave non-profit taking the case against Myriad Genetics to the Supreme Court wrote: "Myriad Genetics’ claim on our very DNA creates a profitable corporate monopoly for them, generating approximately half a billion dollars a year in revenue. In the last fiscal quarter alone, Myriad made $126 million off genetic testing for breast cancer — a full 85% of their total revenue."

The test for BRCA1 and BRCA2 was developed by an academic researcher at UC Berkeley, a public university, and was funded by over $5 million of federal tax money. But this did not stop the researcher from entering into a private licensing agreement with Myriad Genetics, which then took the publicly supported research and privatized it for their own huge financial gain.

Prominent economist Joseph Stiglitz, of Columbia University, wrote:

"Myriad Genetics ... claims to own the rights to any test for the presence of the two critical genes associated with breast cancer, and it has ruthlessly enforced that right, though their test is inferior to one that Yale University was willing to provide at much lower cost. The consequences have been tragic: Thorough, affordable testing that identifies high-risk patients saves lives. Blocking such testing costs lives. Myriad is a true example of an American corporation for which profit trumps all other values, including the value of human life itself."

This expensive test is frequently not covered by insurance, though access will improve for women with a family history of breast cancer under the Affordable Care Act. Still, Affordable Care Act money should be used to provide medical care that is expensive for a reason, not to prop up an unfair and anti-competitive monopoly.

Other scientists are not allowed to investigate the patented gene, and other variations of the gene whose effect is still unknown. Asian American, Latino, and African American women are more likely to have alternative variants of the gene for which the expected clinical outcomes are uncertain.

In a time when feel-good "walks for the cure" are the face of many cancer charities, and when blanket awareness of breast cancer is promoted rather than specific knowledge and informed action, we need to support grassroots organizations like Breast Cancer Action for their bravery in taking big pharma to court.

The cause needs to be better embraced by feminist activists of all genders. If you want the laws off of your body, you sure as hell better want the laws out of your genetic code too.

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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby LilyPatToo » Wed May 29, 2013 11:21 am

Just found a site that has lots of articles on subjects like street harassment--Everyday Feminism--and their Facebook page has some lively discussions too. I found the site through another recent blog post linked to on UpWorthy that concerned an abuse situation endured by a young woman aid worker isolated in a foreign country and how it finally opened her eyes to what IS and is not abuse and how women are raised to be confused and hesitant to defend themselves...sometimes until it's too late. How amazing is it that women can be well-educated and intelligent and still not be clear on this stuff?! Hell, I'm still stumbling through understanding verbal abuse well enough to be able to put a name to it and I'm 66 :oops:

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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby Hammer of Los » Thu May 30, 2013 6:09 am

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Teach your daughters to take no crap from no one.

Sometimes children wisest teachers of all.

Teach them girls best, girls closest to womb of creation, girls sacrifice more.

Athena wiser than Mars.

I bow to Athena.

Teach them to be strong.

Tell them they can be whatever they most desire to be.


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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby ShinShinKid » Thu May 30, 2013 2:03 pm

I posted this story on my blog, but I wanted to make sure it was seen here, too!

"In the fall of 1988, the Pine Ridge Lady Thorpes went to Lead, South Dakota, to play a basketball game. SuAnne was a full member of the team by then. She was a freshman, fourteen years old. Getting ready in the locker room, the Pine Ridge girls could hear the din from the fans. They were yelling fake-Indian war cries, a “woo-woo-woo” sound. The usual plan for the pre-game warm-up was for the visiting team to run onto the court in a line, take a lap or two around the floor, shoot some baskets, and then go to their bench at courtside. After that, the home team would come out and do the same, and then the game would begin.

Usually the Thorpes lined up for their entry more or less according to height, which meant that senior Doni De Cory, one of the tallest, went first. As the team waited in the hallway leading from the locker room, the heckling got louder. The Lead fans were yelling epithets like “squaw” and “gut-eater.” Some were waving food stamps, a reference to the Reservation’s receiving federal aid. Others yelled, “Where’s the cheese?” The joke being that if Indians were lining up, it must be to get commodity cheese. The Lead high school band had joined in, with fake-Indian drumming and a fake-Indian tune. Doni De Cory looked out the door and told her teammates, “I can’t handle this.” SuAnne quickly offered to go first in her place. She was so eager that Doni became suspicious. “Don’t embarrass us,” Doni told her. SuAnne said, “I won’t. I won’t embarrass you.” Doni gave her the ball and SuAnne stood first in line.

She came running onto the court dribbling the basketball, with her teammates running behind. On the court, the noise was deafeningly loud. SuAnne went right down the middle; but instead of running a full lap, she suddenly stopped when she got to center court. Her teammates were taken by surprise, and some bumped into one another. Coach Zimiga at the rear of the line did not know why they had stopped. SuAnne turned to Doni De Cory and tossed her the ball. Then she stepped into the jump-ball circle at center court, in front of the Lead fans. She unbuttoned her warm-up jacket, took it off, draped it over her shoulders and began to do the Lakota shawl dance. SuAnne knew all the traditional dances. She had competed in many powwows as a little girl, and the dance she chose is a young woman’s dance, graceful and modest and show-offy all at the same time. “I couldn’t believe it; she was powwowin’, like, ‘get down!’” Doni De Cory recalled. “And then she started to sing.” SuAnne began to sing in Lakota, swaying back and forth in the jump-ball circle, doing the shawl dance, using her warm-up jacket for a shawl.

The crowd went completely silent.

“All that stuff the Lead fans were yelling, it was like she reversed it somehow,” a teammate said. In the sudden quiet, all you could hear was her Lakota song.

SuAnne stood up, dropped her jacket, took the ball from Doni De Cory, and ran a lap around the court dribbling expertly and fast. The fans began to cheer and applaud. She sprinted to the basket, went up in the air, and laid the ball through the hoop, with the fans cheering loudly now. Of course, Pine Ridge went on to win the game.

“It was funny,” Doni De Cory says, “but after that game the relationship between Lead and us was tremendous. When we played Lead again, the games were really good, and we got to know some of the girls on the team. Later, when we went to a tournament and Lead was there, we were hanging out with the Lead girls and eating pizza with them. We got to know some of their parents, too. What SuAnne did made a lasting impression and changed the whole situation with us and Lead. We found out there are some really good people in Lead.“
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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby beeline » Thu May 30, 2013 2:30 pm

Feminism
Posted on May 23, 2013 by isabelsadventuresinnicaragua

I get asked a lot what I miss most about American culture being here. The first things that usually pop into my head are trivial: the food or the connivence of everything in America. But my Peace Corps friend Alba has always replied: feminism. And the longer I have been here, the more I agree. Feminism, the basic idea that women should be politically, socially, and economically equal to men, was something I had taken for granted until I came to a country where there is a wildly unbalanced gender divide.

If we define sexual harassment as unwanted sexual advances or obscene remarks, then I am sexually harassed every single day. When I walk down the street, men make cat calls or piropos at me. After being here for 8 months, I’m still learning how to tune it out, but it bothers me to a depth that is difficult to describe. I don’t feel unsafe, and I never have here, but to hear their whistles and comments makes me tense up, avert my eyes, walk faster, cringe, glare, clench my fists. And when you hear not one, but 20 piropos every time you walk down the street, it starts to wear at you. I want scream at them that I am a professional, I am educated, I am a person, I am not an object. In a country that on so many levels is incredibly friendly and welcoming, I now only greet women, children, my students, or people I know personally on the street– I ignore every man from age 15 on up. Sometimes it feels defeating, like I don’t want to even leave the house. Sometimes it feels enraging, like I am going to sock the very next person in the face who makes a comment at me. Sometimes I just feel sad, that I am dealing with this for two years, but the women of Nicaragua have to deal with this for every day for their entire lives.

The piropos are the most vocal, obvious lack of gender equality, but it goes much deeper. I’ve stopped asking women if they are married. The correct first question is do you have children? All women have children, but not many women have a man stick around long enough to help them raise it. I can count on one hand how many women I know here that have a husband or a man helping them. Nicaragua is a country of strong, single mothers and Mother’s Day is an enormous holiday in Nicarauga. I was even told that I also get to celebrate Mother’s Day because I will be a mother in the future. It is assumed that you will have kids and it is also assumed that you will most likely raise it by yourself or with the help of your sisters, mother, or grandmother.

Yesterday, during my literacy class at the Casa de Mujer, I taught a very pregnant 12 year old the Spanish alphabet. Her husband is 30 years old. She is too young and her pelvis is too small to even give birth naturally. Her c-section is scheduled for next week. I am so intensely angry at the situation and the injustice of it and the fact that in Nicaragua, there is nothing really that can be done to help this girl. There is no legal age of sexual consent, there is no concept of statutory rape. At age twelve, I was in 7th grade, I played on a softball team on the weekends, I participated in Science Olympiad, loved the TV show Lizzie Magguire, and The Giver was my favorite book. At twelve, I had a baby sister, I didn’t have a baby and I didn’t have a husband. I didn’t have to do the family’s laundry by hand, I didn’t spend the entire day cleaning the house, and I didn’t skip school in order prepare three meals a day from scratch. And the most rattling part for me is that this is normal. Nicaraguans look at that girl and say, “qué lastima,” what a shame, but they have seen it all too often.

I don’t know what needs to happen in Nicaragua to incite a drastic gender revolution, but things need to change. As one feminist here for two years, I’ll start by sharing my experiences. I’ll tell them how I am 25 and I’m not married and I don’t have kids yet and that is ok. I’ll tell the girls that they do have choices and they do have options and they don’t need to say yes to the first boy that tells them they are pretty. When I work up the courage, I’ll stop and tell those men on the street who give me piropos that if they want to talk to me, they can do so in a respectable way and they can call me by my first name. I think it will take a long time, but I’m trying to have faith that poco a poco, little by little, gender change will happen in this country.
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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby Hammer of Los » Thu May 30, 2013 2:50 pm

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Yeah.

I should never have fallen for the first girl that called me pretty.

What?

Just a joke man!

Plus I kinder androgyne.

Andro Sphinx and andro gyne.

I should have said teach your children to be strong and take no crap, not just your daughters yeah.

Maybe boys need tellin' that too.

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Re: Everyday Sexism

Postby OP ED » Thu May 30, 2013 3:55 pm

Hammer of Los » Thu May 30, 2013 1:50 pm wrote:...

Yeah.

I should never have fallen for the first girl that called me pretty.

What?

Just a joke man!

Plus I kinder androgyne.

Andro Sphinx and andro gyne.

I should have said teach your children to be strong and take no crap, not just your daughters yeah.

Maybe boys need tellin' that too.

...



probably. both could probably do with being taught to be strong enough not to give each other crap too. its a lesson that could've helped a great many members of my generation.

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