I'm glad you replied, Counsel. I meant to compliment you for your heroic actions. It's quite a rush to have saved a life and to have rescued one from suicide leaves one feeling saintly, especially when there's a very happy ever after. There are those who would also turn their back on these fellow humans in distress.
I don' wanna get involved.Speaking of saving one after they've jumped, I recently heard on NPR a very interesting story. It told of survivors, those who had attempted suicide by jumping from a bridge, I believe it was from one of San Francisco's bridges. From the exact very moment they let go, they knew somehow they had made the wrong choice and immediately regretted it. However, they survived and they now value each and every day, each moment of the day, much differently than before their attempted suicide. Now treasuring life, living in the moment.
I do agree with what you say so and it well demonstrates your compassion.
The best you can do is ask them why they are doing it, if they can hear you. Then, according to what they say you might argue that lighting themselves on fire would overwhelm their message or distract from the message they are trying to send. He might have had the same kind of motivation as Thich Quang Duc. His intention of sacrifice could be equal or superior to my impulse to disuade him from doing so or to save him after ignition.
I believe if there was such an opportunity to converse with one in this situation I would do the same or with words similar in meaning.
Please don't misunderstand me. I don't begrudge one the right to commit such a self-sacrificing sensational act. I can certainly see the value of such expression stemming from what one would call a hopeless situation. But in the case, what's the fellow's message?
When I lived in the projects and a fight drifted into my view and many did, I'd interfere and break it up or move it along. Being told to mind my business I would reply that it became my business when you brought it to my front door. Don't want me involved? Move it around the corner, where neither my children or I will have to witness or hear it.
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]Sometimes you act. Sometimes you respond. Sometimes you don't. For me it is no more surprising either way.
I am at once grateful and fearfull of the forces without that move me through these unconscious mysteries.[/quote]
