Jill at Feministe has a post up--her 4,234th--that Atrios at Eschaton linked to today.
http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2011/05/02/filling-the-gaps/It's a long post dealing with many important ideas, but among the ideas presented is the importance for online feminist collaboration requires more than "calling out" culture.
It’s also to say that we need to grow, as a community and as individuals, beyond a feminist analysis that begins and ends with call-outs and Owning Privilege (or telling other people to Own Their Privilege). Privilege analysis is crucial to feminist activism, but it isn’t activism in and of itself. If the analysis is self-flagellation in order to prove that you’re A Good _____ rather than introspection in order to actually be a better ______, it’s not even really helpful. If privilege analysis is a weapon that you wield in order to either establish yourself as superior to those who aren’t as “open” about their privilege, or that you use to beat down the perspectives and comments of a person who you believe is either not oppressed enough to deserve to engage in the conversation or isn’t letting enough blood to prove themselves worthy of engagement, it’s actively harmful.
Another point Jill makes is just how much work it is to make online communication between many to many possible.
I do hope that Canadian_Watcher is not so soured on the experience of this post to leave RI. This thread is important to me because misogyny is a critical problem that scars all of us to greater and lesser extents.
It's so true that as a white male I have privilege to which I not conscious of. But as a person I'm connected to others. In my life are women and girls who mean so much to me. The danger, disadvantage and hostility they face matters to me. First of all because I love them. Desmond Tutu's short definition of Ubuntu is: " It means that we are people through other people." As and American I can't think of a word native to American English to express the fundamental interdependence of people, nevertheless I believe Ubuntu is universal, a fact of being human. So misogyny is a serious problem not just because I love the women and girls in my life, but also because the harm affects me.
So of course as a man too often unconscious of my privilege I don't experience misogyny as women do; misogyny still affects me and not in an all together unconscious way. For example I worry about sexual assault against my teenage nieces and other teens in my sphere. I also want them to develop into the fullest expressions of themselves. I want hem to create and to accomplish. And so the little prejudices that conspire to exclude them bother me. I try to dream up ways to help them suffer the slights and go around obstacles they encounter. I try to encourage them. I'm hardly the best ally, but just as I'm for them, they're for me. I feel sure that even if there is not a good native word for our mutual interdependence we all know that concept and real and important.
This thread has touched on so many topics which might be threads of there own. I admire C_W's fortitude for sticking with this thread. Such a large commitment, such an open-ended commitment, isn't one for everyone. Really it seems too much for me. Perhaps there are some topics here at RI that should have a limited time before they are locked. Most post have a time and then fade. Some posts here are added to over the years and that's a special feature of RI I'd hate to lose.
But it does seem to me that perhaps some threads might benefit an expiration date. A person might be willing to curate and moderate a thread for a specified period of time, but not be willing to make it a career. So perhaps the lock could be used as a feature for posts, not as a punishment or signal that the thread went off the rails, but as a feature to keep the thread on topic and to limit the commitment of the person or persons tending it.
I do hope that all of use who have participated in this thread will consider some to the important themes and topics which have come up in this thread which deserve more rigorous examination and conversation. I hope this thread will encourage more threads perhaps with a more particular focus.