Very sad story, backtoiam and I'm very sorry you had such an awful experience. I'm glad you've found a peaceful place to be.
I conducted a search looking for a comment I had made some long time ago, but I could not locate it. I mentioned my chaperone at Burning Man just the year before, in 2005, had been targeted by this technology, too, though he was unharmed.
They, whoever "they" were, had a jolly time broadcasting via microwaves directly into people's heads by using their skull as a resonator, one individual at a time, and only the target could hear whatever was being broadcast. My friend said the experience freaked him out quite a bit, especially when he asked his friends if they were hearing what he was and they, hearing nothing, thought he was losing it.
OMG! "Another Man Loses Mind at Burning Man!"
Then they began experiencing the same. Not so funny any more.
It's first commercial use was planned for signage in NYC's Times Square. Instead of Joe Camel blowing smoke rings, they planned on entering the heads of passers-by to suggest certain urgent shopping and dining needs, which they would believe to be their own original thoughts. "Needs."
That plan got squashed soon after being publicly promoted. Should be some sort of paper trail, re permits, etc. on file in NYC. Might have read about the silent talking sign proposal in the NYT ages ago.
DARPA's Sonic Projectorshttp://www.thelivingmoon.com/45jack_files/03files/Sonic_Projection.html