JackRiddler wrote:
More of the same. You presented a thesis. I rejected it. I didn't say how you should feel or what words you should use. This isn't about semantics. I spoke in a general way that communicated my view of your idea that the Superbowl show was "Satanic" and that Madonna supports child abuse. I didn't even address the last comment to you directly, precisely because I feared you would react in this highly insulted fashion. (Who's intimidating whom?) I certainly didn't call you a shitty human being, either by implying it or coming right out and saying it, as you claim. That's what you read into the fact that I disagree with you. It is apparent that you feel intimidated by disagreement. Perhaps you hate the way I disagree because I am usually systematic and effective at it. Too bad. You project on to me the role of the intimidator. I can't help it when I write something like, "your view on the Superbowl show is bullshit unless you can demonstrate otherwise with evidence" and you read that as an accusation that you personally are stupid, shitty, worthless, etc. and must submit to my cruel (if non-existent) dictatorship over the RI discourse. This is a very sorry reaction, and the opposite of secure.
Your right to order your own perceptions of reality and express them accordingly stands inviolate as far as I'm concerned.
Saurian Tail wrote:People are intuitives, thinkers, feelers and sensors. People see the world differently. They communicate their thoughts and experiences differently. What seems perfectly natural to one person will cause another person to grind their teeth. It is vitally important that people be allowed to be themselves. Make every attempt to be aware of your own triggers.
Thank you Saurian. Despite the meaning JR tried to impose on my words, my intent was only to express my own reaction to the spectacle, and to talk with people here who were expressing their own perceptions. I never claimed to be the bringer of inarguable truth concerning Madonna's position in an inarguable cult. There does exist a set of facts, including a legally sanctioned child-snatching, a certain pattern of behavior with Madonna quite apart from the Superbowl halftime show, that leads me to intuitively speculate on her state of mind and the intent of her actions. Do I believe she literally sacrifices children to Satan or some other deity? Hell, I doubt it very much but I reserve the right to 'go there' should I perceive an urge to wonder about it, with her or anyone else.
PW wrote:I am also concerned that spending a great amount of time speculating about the meaning of a bit of entertainment, in the absence of testimony of direct harm, or testimony or evidence of intended harm, can contribute to trivializing real acts of abuse.
The last thing I want to do is trivialize acts of abuse, but don't acts of abuse often come in the form of ritualized 'entertainment'? Can we agree that some individual acts of entertainment are created, even organized around ritual, with the express intent to cause harm, psychic and otherwise? Shoot, I include most Christian church revivals in that definition of occult entertainment.
My general concern, as always, is that these heinous criminal rituals be further disappeared by an over broadening of language and focus. I do not think this is trivial.
I do not think it's trivial either, I understand and respect your concern with lack of precision in the language of abuse, and I do not deny the power of words to cause harm. But sometimes a personal perception of issues that concern a person is just that, and initially in an effort to obtain a deeper understanding the person may reach for and grab the wrong words, according to one criteria or another, to describe their feelings on the broader implications in play without
meaning to cause harm to any individual or breach anyone's rightful boundaries.
I'm not sure there is anything we can do to fix the human tendency to not always say exactly what we mean in exactly the spirit in which we intend, or to not always receive the words of others in the spirit in which they were intended. That is not to say we shouldn't strive for perfect communication of thoughts, feelings, and ideas but I believe this begins and ends when each party is accorded at least the initial presumption that they are communicating with a modicum of integrity and good faith.