by Elvis » Fri Dec 14, 2012 12:53 am
Did I already talk about these? Weed is legal here now, y'know.
Gentlemen standing up when a lady enters the room.
Maybe that should be in quotes. That's more or less how my mother phrased it.
In fact, the last time I saw that was about ten years ago, at a big party in a restaurant. I was standing at a table where a friend and some others, including his elderly parents, were seated. When a young female friend of his stopped by the table to say hi, his 75-year-old father stood up. As long as she remained standing by the table, he remained standing. You could tell he rather wanted to sit back down to his dinner, but I don't think the young lady realized why he was standing. She was invited to sit down but declined. And for what must have been ten minutes, he did not budge until she moved on.
I suppose this custom has rightly gone to the dustbin, but I still do it sometimes when an elderly lady enters.
People pushing in their chairs when they rise from a table.
I know everyone here performs this simple and thoughtful act, but most people? I have to say no, not any more. I've been responsible for going in after and pushing all the chairs back in. So people aren't doing it. Look at the visual disarray it leaves, not to mention the trip hazards & associated liabilities. People used to push in their chairs, it was just the considerate thing to do. What happened? The other day when some friends and I left a 'food court' I circled the table, pushing in the chairs, glancing back at the neat rows.
People taking off their hats indoors (especially in a theater).
The rule, as it were, was "Always remove your hat indoors." Okay, so that came from the days when men wore hats, like the big fedoras in the 1940s and '50s, and it just wasn't cool to wear a hat indoors. I've finally accepted that no one else has ever heard this before, therefore me wearing a hat indoors isn't going to make anyone uncomfortable. But in a theater, off with the hats!---they further block my view of the proscenium, already obscured a good bit by the wearer's fat head.
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