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JackRiddler wrote:* I suppose I should clarify by adding: In any of the combinations - when she was 25 and I was about the same 25, or if I were 25 and she was 50, or if I'm 50 and she's 25.
JackRiddler wrote:Weirdly enough I find her incredibly hot at 50, which would not have been the case at 25.* But that's been one of my lucky things as I get older - I've always maintained a desire for my own age group.
* I suppose I should clarify by adding: In any of the combinations - when she was 25 and I was about the same 25, or if I were 25 and she was 50, or if I'm 50 and she's 25. Gah, the latter sounds icky. I have an adult child, I prefer my participation in his social life to be strictly vicarious. I'm pretty sure 35 is my age minimum at this time. I'm sure the ladies are all taking notes. Right?
Nordic wrote:Notice that while everybody was changing their FB profile pics to red equsl signs ( like the scotus is gonna be checking out yer FB), Obama dinged a "law" giving Monsanto complete immunity, ie rendering them above the law. Above the fucking law.
As usual the gay marriage thing is being used as a distraction.
or whatever the current Moral Hysteria of the Week is on the FOX-CNN nightly murder
JackRiddler wrote:Nordic wrote:Notice that while everybody was changing their FB profile pics to red equsl signs ( like the scotus is gonna be checking out yer FB), Obama dinged a "law" giving Monsanto complete immunity, ie rendering them above the law. Above the fucking law.
As usual the gay marriage thing is being used as a distraction.
For this to be true as written, you would have to also argue that if not for "the gay marriage thing," the corporate media and public discourse would be focused on the Monsanto law. This seems a dubious proposition. You would further have to argue that no other distraction would have existed, or have been found during the process of Obamadinging, that could have served as a distraction from the intense coverage that the corporate media and public discourse would have otherwise devoted to the Monsanto Total Immunity From The Burdens of Law Act of 2013. Again, this also seems a dubious proposition. One could reply that while they're ignoring Monsanto, as of course they would do in 99.99% of cases, it's better for them to be talking about gay marriage rather than March Madness, or whatever the current Moral Hysteria of the Week is on the FOX-CNN nightly murder shows.
Come to think of it, you may be in the clear: I guess more people are talking about March Madness than Gay Marriage. Brackets!
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FourthBase wrote:What about the venue Nordic specified, Facebook, the private-ish public sub-discourse among liberals and other leftists who trade political articles and memes, the word of mouth news feed grapevine?
JackRiddler wrote:FourthBase wrote:What about the venue Nordic specified, Facebook, the private-ish public sub-discourse among liberals and other leftists who trade political articles and memes, the word of mouth news feed grapevine?
You mean the sphere of voluntary dissemination by individuals making their own choices?
I'm not going to accept that news about the possible recognition of the rights of a large proportion of mankind - of people who have been stigmatized, oppressed and murdered as a lower caste - somehow constitutes a distraction from the simultaneous news of yet another unlawful consolidation of the corporate dictatorship. That's bullshit. It's an odious false dichotomy.
For starters, I'd figure anyone saying that isn't gay and doesn't feel much empathy for those who are. Due to my own experience, my own loved ones and my own principles, I could never see it that way.
There are a billion highly usual distractions going on, and the historic (likely) developments around "gay marriage" (which actually signify an end to all federal discrimination against gay people as a class) are not a distraction from "Monsanto."
I support gay marriage. Of course. Death to Prop 8! Death to DOMA! But...
I resent the politically-expedient exclusion from the discourse by the gay-rights advocacy culture, of the wholly-worthwhile subjects of polyandry and polygyny [should have just said polygamy], the smearing of such subjects as beneath civil discourse, as just the red herring of right-wingers intent to reduce gay marriage to the absurd and reprehensible level of marrying animals or children. Have some backbone, homosexuals. Stand by your bisexual brethren's rights, even if rarely exercised or desired. If not, then remove the "B", please.
The genetic theory of same-sex vs. opposite-sex love logically presupposes for the born-bisexual a capacity for both-sex love. At minimum, the bisexual should have the right to partake in both of those loves at the same time, for life. The maximum number of participants in such a marriage arrangement is [to fulfill the logical obligation], depending on the nature of each participant, 3 to 4. No more, no less. Two males, one female. Two females, one male. Two females, two males. So, to fulfill the requirements of born-bisexual both-love, one need only add to the three arrangements already recognized: Three more. One could still, fairly, prohibit multitudinous polygynous harems, for example.
(Obviously, I'm even here guilty of hand-waving away the complications that would arise with hermaphrodites. My apologies to them.)
Yeah, strategically-speaking, I can't *really* blame them either. If I were a cutthroat PR hack, it's what I would recommend for them. But, I expect much from my gay brethren. I hold them to a higher standard of principles and moral excellence.
The assimilation of minority identities and civil rights into the elite of a pre-existing system of injustice and oppression, would be no great victory, in fact it may just be the next logical step in preserving and perpetuating the status quo, the status quo that means the most, the economic one. Small injustices anywhere may not be as big a threat to justice everywhere as you may think, and remedying them may perversely only reinforce a broader, deeper, viler injustice everywhere, especially if we get too caught up popping tiny bottles of pink champagne in jubilation to notice, say, the peasant wage-slave sweeping up the thrown-rice.
I don't want to overstate the lesson here. There are reasons why such radical change on this issue is easier than on many others. Social issues don't threaten entrenched ruling interests: allowing same-sex couples to marry doesn't undermine oligarchs, the National Security State, or the wildly unequal distribution of financial and political power. Indeed, many of those ruling interests, led by Wall Street and other assorted plutocrats (including Obama's donor base), became the most devoted advocates for LGBT equality. If anything, one could say that the shift on this issue has been more institution-affirming than institution-subverting: the campaign to overturn "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" continually glorified and even fetishized military service, while gay marriage revitalizes a traditional institution - marriage - that heterosexuals have been in the process of killing with whimsical weddings, impetuous divorces, and serial new spouses (as Rush Limbaugh might put it: I'd like you to meet my fourth wife). And these changes are taking a once marginalized and culturally independent community and fully integrating it into mainstream society, thus making that community invested in conventional societal institutions.
FourthBase wrote:Also, as wonderful as marriage equality would be, there are a few reasons to maybe curb one's enthusiasm.
Imagine, a new "gay cancer" spreading metastatically across the country, ruining lives, draining bank accounts, leading to deaths (thankfully not as many as the last one, or as certain, but grimly, there is still time), ignored and outright denied by the scientific community, starved of research funding, sufferers left to fend for themselves in terms of homeopathic or holistic remedies, a social stigma as people avert their social eyes and sufferers find themselves lonely against the void...
Oh, wait, did I say "gay"? My bad, it's just Lyme disease, nevermind. My brother's ex-boyfriend was HIV-positive, for many years, the picture of health, literally. Still is. But, not if he had Lyme disease. If deer ticks only bit gay people, how many fundraising extravaganzas and "Silence = Death" rallies, you think?
JackRiddler wrote:FourthBase wrote:Also, as wonderful as marriage equality would be, there are a few reasons to maybe curb one's enthusiasm.
You don't have to convince me about the reinforcement of conservative institutions. However, it will (assuming the decision goes against DOMA) end one form of discrimination. Practically speaking, things like inheriting Social Security checks and having visitation rights are huge, and this will reverberate across all federal policy with regard to gay people. This highlights the problem of allowing more than two, by the way. Does the last survivor inherit all of the SS checks? How do you propose a limit on polygynous tribes a la Jeffs? (Not Wells but the LDS offshoot.) Should it be only up to four brainwashed teenage brides per 50-year-old man? I think you have to accept the couple as an unavoidable historical legacy for a whiles yet (and the most common combo by far still) while the culture takes a couple more decades to work it out. Should polyamory be looking for a government sanction? Isn't that so not the point?
JackRiddler wrote:Imagine, a new "gay cancer" spreading metastatically across the country, ruining lives, draining bank accounts, leading to deaths (thankfully not as many as the last one, or as certain, but grimly, there is still time), ignored and outright denied by the scientific community, starved of research funding, sufferers left to fend for themselves in terms of homeopathic or holistic remedies, a social stigma as people avert their social eyes and sufferers find themselves lonely against the void...
Oh, wait, did I say "gay"? My bad, it's just Lyme disease, nevermind. My brother's ex-boyfriend was HIV-positive, for many years, the picture of health, literally. Still is. But, not if he had Lyme disease. If deer ticks only bit gay people, how many fundraising extravaganzas and "Silence = Death" rallies, you think?
Your problem here is you're being completely ahistorical. Your first paragraph, not your second, describes what really did happen with the actual AIDS. In fact, the government didn't want to acknowledge the full extent for years so that it could avoid association with the "gay plague." The grassroots response - the many years of organizing under initially difficult circumstances by groups like ACTUP - is the only reason why it might go differently today, as you imply, if a new disease were to appear that afflicts gay people more than straight. Please don't sound like a straight white guy resentful of some perceived privilege of [name minority, most often black] that, if it really exists [usually doesn't] is actually the hard-earned product of persistent political organizing over decades.
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