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slomo » Tue Dec 20, 2016 8:00 pm wrote:I really do hesitate to come into this, as I've been avoiding reading/participation the last week or so, but my attention was drawn to the present thread via Jasun's blog. As a resident gay male voice I probably should say something.
I think it's important to differentiate gay culture from gay people. The latter are simply individuals and should be judged on the merits of their characters as individuals (some are wonderful, some are assholes). The former is actually something that is reasonable to criticize. In my experience, gay male culture is somewhat driven by a non-negligible hedonistic minority who views sexual expression and exploration as the highest good, and thus any attack on any form of sexual expression might be viewed as an attack on the so-called "rights" of this very vocal minority. From my perspective, having been subjected to 30+ years of that BS (to a far lesser degree now than when I was younger, because I now avoid gay culture like the plague it feels like), some of that culture can justifiably be described as depraved. Not all of it, obviously, and of course not every gay person (not even most of us). But some of it, yes indeed. It's a cop-out to dismiss all such criticism as homophobia or hate-speech.
Once again: I do wish to remind people to be mindful to separate the sexual orientation of homosexuality from whatever dysfunction is displayed by the segments of the culture that happens to be mapped to that sexual orientation.
As for why I'm avoiding this subject: no good can come of it personally. I've described elsewhere what #PG seems to entail: loose associations that can be described as "smoke", but prove little by themselves. Since there is no political will to formally investigate whether there is or is not any "fire" (and I would not be surprised if there were), and such an investigation would be a necessary precursor to any form of justice, most of this discussion is pointless unless it helps you personally understand the rotten nature of the world we live in. I already have that understanding. I'm trying to figure out ways to make it less rotten in the immediate environment over which I have control, and #PG doesn't seem to be very helpful in that regard. My 2c...
barracuda » 20 Dec 2016 16:37 wrote:Certainly in the United States, het culture is driven by a hedonistic majority who views sex as the defining characteristic of just about everything, most of which can also be defined as depraved. I mean, really - pick up any magazine or tune into Game of Thrones. I don't personally qualify saying that as hate speech. It's reality, the bones of which I have witnessed intimately for forty years now. So I have a problem with qualifying gay culture as somehow inherently more perverse than het culture.
The question is this: do you think gay culture was literally created by child sexual abusers as cover for their dealings? Were the Stonewall riots some kind of ruse to get a pass to get to our children?
Okay, that last question was hyperbole, but here we are.
slomo » Tue Dec 20, 2016 6:00 pm wrote:there is a certain kind of spiritual darkness that gay culture does seem to want to protect ...
American Dream » 20 Dec 2016 17:23 wrote:I'm not in favor of strengthening censorship powers by the State but I have no problem with alternative media such as pirate radio stations- and Rigorous Intuition for that matter- deciding to ban hate speech, and then doing so.
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