I think people are probably more curious about my member name than anything else. It came from one of those silly games "what goddess were you born under". Friends who've known me for years as sweet Valentine were

. Little did they know they had that pegged wrong all along. Valentine is Ender's sister in the Ender's Game series, and I liked the character and her style in the books.
These are the only nicknames I've used on line. Soloflecks, Valentine, Estsanatlehi, and Pele'sDaughter. I don't use them at the same time or to create drama. I've never been a joker/trickster. From an early age it was important to me to be straightforward and trusted by others. The fact that I do not play headgames has actually made it hard for me to fit in at times as it seems to be almost expected from women.
So, regardless of what people may want to know about me (if anything) what I want them to know is how much I value integrity and that I can be trusted. I hope I show this in my words and actions.
Don't believe anything they say.
And at the same time,
Don't believe that they say anything without a reason.
---Immanuel Kant