slomo » 21 Dec 2016 11:00 wrote:Yes, perversity is everywhere.
The problem is, the norms of heterosexual culture (if there is such a thing) -- the very thing drag culture mocks -- acts as a check on that perversity. Maybe not a very effective one, but it tries... On the other hand, there is a segment of gay male culture that prides itself on its sexually transgressive nature. And if you suggest that, oh, maybe, perhaps such
transgressions might be self-destructive (at best), then you are immediately vilified as homophobic.
Are you sure about this? I dunno if it even tries.
Don't believe me? Try suggesting to your average gay man that, from a public health long-term-dynamical-system perspective, PrEP (or rather the culture of its indiscriminate use) might actually be harmful in the long run, that it incentivizes the kind of sexually irresponsible behavior that led to the HIV epidemic in the first place. See what kind of feedback you get from him.
In the same way that the pill let feminism destroy western culture? Is there really a difference? Isn't PrEP a responsible form of sexual activity like using condoms or raincoats? (I honestly dunno but I don't see much difference.)
(And no, I'm not blaming individuals for contracting HIV, I'm blaming the apologists/advocates for a culture that can't seem to understand how evolutionary dynamics and sexual promiscuity interact to create one superbug after another, regardless of whatever opinion Larry Kramer or Pat Robertson has.) It's actually harmful to real gay individuals to not criticize the dysfunctions of gay male culture.
It really seems like your objection is to casual sexual activity. But there is more yeah?
I'm not sure about gay male culture being a so-called Trojan Horse for pedophilia. Certainly, yes, pederasty, as both my partner and I have experienced as victims (although the harm done to either of us was fairly minimal when compared with other experiences each of us has faced in our lives). That part is indistinguishable from heterosexuality, it's just that it seems to be OK for a straight man to lust after a 17-year-old girl, but it's not OK for a gay man to lust after a 17-year-old boy.
People can be sexually mature at 16 years old. Biological attraction isn't evil. Obviously being 30 and wanting a relationship with an 18 (or 16) year old presents the sort of problems that a 45 year old having a relationship with a 30 or 32 year old doesn't present in terms of relative maturity and development of a worldview etc etc If anything thats probably less of an issue with gay men or all non straight people ... I can see relationships between much older gay men and younger men could have the potential to be less exploitative, more "educational" (specifically culturally as well as sexually or whatever else) and have a genuine aspect of mentoring.
But my experience is that NAMBLA was always kept at a far distance if it was even tolerated at all. Nevertheless, there is a certain kind of spiritual darkness that gay culture does seem to want to protect (mostly because it's too spineless to assert any kind of healthy boundary), and if you get sucked into it who knows where you go. I do have one former acquaintance who, long after I cut ties with him, did get arrested for possession of CP. I was not very surprised when I heard about it, not because I knew that he had any specific interest in CP, but rather it was a logical destination along the trajectory I saw him following before I decided I didn't want to spend any more time with him.
Dunno if this is unique to gay culture either. As AD mentioned rape culture is a pretty universal thing.
Where I live (New South Wales in Australia) CP includes porn with women wearing schoolgirl uniforms even if they are over 18, satirical Simpsons cartoons and a whole lot of stuff that isn't actually photographic records of child abuse. (Including what consenting 14 year old kids send each other on their mobiles.) Well it did last i heard anyway, that was nearly a decade ago. Dunno if that applies to your former acquaintance or not.
I'm sure your assessment of some aspects of gay culture being unhealthy is true and accurate, but I don't think thats what is being suggested wrt gay cultural and Trojans to hide a global pedo cult.