American Dream » Sun Jul 07, 2013 6:52 pm wrote:Searcher08 » Sun Jul 07, 2013 1:29 pm wrote:That said, racism and "anti-Semitism" really do exist and they do have a lot to do with the concerns about David Icke, about Gilad Atzmon and about other fundamental issues that these three defenders seem to completely ignore, minimize and/or actively invalidate. And that is a problem within the context of this board- not the only problem- but a very, very real one...
This is precisely why I have raised your specific behaviour on this thread towards particularly SLAD and also slimmouse with the Mods, something I have never IIRC done on R.I. before.
At least now it is out in the open at long last, despite your previous denials that you viewed SLAD, slim or myself in this way.
Providing specific quotes is important and you should be willing to undergo the same scrutiny yourself.
I am more than willing to do that, this one though is about your behaviour to SLAD and slim.
This is not your Board. This is Jeff Wells board. My interactions with you on this thread have
been about either answering detailed specific questions on what I think or know about certain things including
Arizona Wilder
Cathy O'Brien
Alien/human hybrids
I feel sad around this as the communication structure you have set up, the Infinite Loop structure (which Elvis recognised), creates effects in the people who are at the receiving end of it which would probably deeply distress, shock and surprise you to your core if you were in their skins.
I want to talk frankly about how very angry I have been at how you treated SLAD, slim, CW and myself in this thread.
Even when I post carefully thought through, specific constructive questions to you, that are based on a context of trying to clarify and check and understand and find common ground they are unanswered.
AD, if someone says "S08, you are outta line here" - I try to listen and take that on board STAT.
It happened in this thread. You were the person who said it. I listened and took it on board.
I hope that you will do the same for me -
I would like you to question me and slad and slim and CW about what your communication has felt like in this thread. I would like you just to listen and ask questions until they say "YES, AD, that's IT, that's what it was like" In other words, Im requesting empathy.
Then when that is done, we will have a 'clean space' to actually in an NVC way, communicate about what YOUR unmet needs are around this, in a communication structure that can breath be fun and grow.